There are so many articles and so much advice available about how to attract women, that it can be confusing to know what works and what doesn’t work. It can frustrate even the smoothest guy because the list of advice and tips goes on and on. Honestly, if you want to attract women the easy way, you don’t need tips, tricks, or manipulation.
What you need is a positive and welcoming disposition.Sounds corny, right? Be positive, happy, and appreciative…. Doesn’t sound like the manly way to attract women, but let’s face it, the days of the dominant caveman and cocky, overbearing macho man are gone. Women want something different. They want to be with someone that makes them feel comfortable and happy, and a relationship that is peaceful and stable. How do you create that type of environment or atmosphere that will attract women?
One thing you need to do is have a positive attitude. By positive attitude I don’t mean skipping down the road, smelling flowers, and hugging strangers. By positive attitude I mean a positive outlook on life. You will never attract women if you live your life complaining, criticizing, and pissed off. Who wants to be with a guy that drags people down with his negativity? Instead, take life for what it is and make the best of it. You will attract women much easier if they can see that even crappy, unfair situations don’t get you down. If you can keep on trudging through with a sincere smile on your face, women will pick up on that.
Another way to attract women is with an attitude of appreciation. If you can appreciate your life the way it is, appreciate the small things everyday, and be thankful for what you have, YOU will attract women. The reason women are drawn to this type of person is because it exudes contentment. Someone who is content exemplifies calmness, comfort, happiness and peace. Exactly what women want out of a guy. No arguing, no drama, no emotional roller coaster. This type of flow will attract women because that is their ideal type of relationship.
That appreciative attitude will make her see that you are happy, thankful, and take everything in stride. Your disposition and personality say that if something good happens today, then you will think that is great. But if nothing special comes your way, you are at peace with that too. Don’t confuse contentment with laziness or apathy, though. Those attributes do NOT attract women. I am not saying not to care about what happens in life and your day-to-day activities. Instead, I am saying accept what happens without letting it dictate your thoughts, attitude, mood, and who you are. Women love a guy that can roll with the punches and remain positive and appreciative.
In order to attract women, you do not have to bother with a top 20 list or “advice from the experts”. What you need is to know what women want and are looking for, and be that guy. They want happiness, calmness, appreciation, and contentment. If you can adopt and exhibit these characteristics, I guarantee YOU will attract women.